What is something people don't tell you about being a 30 year old incel

I'm 30 years old now and I've been an incel for most of my life. <br><br>I still am<br>It is 100% true that it gets harder as you get older. <br><br>I went to the club on my birthday and could not get a single woman to make eye contact with me. <br><br>I am a 30 year old man lmao! <br><br>I've come to terms that being incel is just a part of who I am. I've learned to love myself and to live a fulfilling life and I'm happy for that. However, I'm still sad that I've always been and likely always will be an incel. But I've learned to live with it.