AITA for telling a coworker her behavior is why women are treated like they don’t wear pants.

My coworker (22f) had a meeting with our boss and went on a little rant about how she hates the way she is treated as a woman. I don’t blame her and I agree that she should not be treated a certain way because of her sex. She then went on to say that she will not put anything back in the supply closet when she uses something, because “she is a woman and shouldn’t have to do all the chores.”<br><br>I (28f) am in charge of the supply closet and I actually trained her on how to use the cart system we use to keep everything clean and organized. I also work with the supplies everyday and it is super annoying to me that she doesn’t put things back where they go. <br><br>So after she complained to our boss about this, I asked a follow up question. I said, “So are you saying you’re willing to be treated like crap because you don’t want to do chores?” She looked really confused and said no. I pointed out the contradiction and said that her actions were actually causing more people to treat women like they don’t wear pants. She got mad at me and said I was an AH.<br><br>Later on my boss called me in to discuss the issue and I explained how I trained her and how I use the supplies everyday. She said that I should let it go because I’m not the only one who uses the supplies and that I shouldn’t be the only one to put things back. I said that it actually just makes it worse when everyone puts things back willy nilly. It makes it look like a mess and people don’t want to use the supplies because they think it’s a waste of time to look for what they need.<br><br>My boss said that this isn’t the first time she’s heard complaints about me being petty and I’m making a big deal over nothing. I asked if that was why she was siding with the other girl instead of taking my side and she said I was overreacting and being dramatic.<br><br>I don’t think I’m overreacting or being dramatic but I want to know if I’m an AH for calling her out in front of our boss. AITA?