If YOU need a date or relationship or sex, you are of lesser value. If you don't need one, you have more value

If you come on this subreddit and mention that you need this or that to improve your life, you are going to be rejected. If you don't need those things and can live without them and still be happy, people will want to be around you. Many of you have said yourself that the people with high social status in school didn't seem to care about that social status at all. People with high social status don't need it. People who need social status are just fake and have lower status. People who need a date have lower status. People who don't need a date have higher status. Many of you have said you have been rejected for being too clingy or "try hard" when you asked a girl out, this is because people don't want to be around people who NEED them. People want to be around people who don't need them.<br><br>This is also why I think the term "value" is used so much on this subreddit. It's because people are always calculating and evaluating what value they get from other people. People who are more valuable don't need other people because they already have value within themselves. People who have lower value need other people to fill that void within themselves. But people don't want to be around people who need them.<br><br>Putting your life or happiness in other people's hands is a weak thing to do. I'm sorry to break it to you.