AITA for getting mad at my wife for telling my son to stop?

I have a 7 year old son and today I was helping him with his homework. He is doing really well but he is currently working on multiplication and he doesn’t get it. <br><br>I was helping him and he got really frustrated and ran upstairs. I came downstairs and made him a glass of chocolate milk and put Oreos in it. When I went back upstairs he was calm and we got to work again. My wife came home from work and saw the snack I made him and she asked me why I did that. I told her that he was frustrated and needed a break. She got mad and told me that I was enabling him and making him think that if he has a melt down he will get a snack. <br><br>I told her she was wrong and I think my way is better. She just told me that I was spoiling him and left the room. Aita?