My son is a monster

My son is a 16 year old boy. He's a teenager and he's awful. I love him to pieces, but I just don't know what to do with him. He's the most awful version of himself all of the time. I've learned to just completely avoid him and it's sad, but I don't know what else to do. <br><br>He's mean to me. He's mean to my other kids. He's mean to my husband and even the dogs don't like him. I know that's not entirely true, they love him, but he just completely ignores them. <br><br>He's a terrible boy and I know I've done something wrong. I keep thinking back to when I was pregnant with him. I did bungee cord jumping while I was pregnant with him and I know that can't of been good. <br><br>I know it's not his fault and that he can't help who he is, but I still want him to be better.