My friend 20m is getting married at 21f and is 180cm 3.5% body fat, 6 foot and really good looking yet he is still insecure.

I 22 6"1 190cm and 3.6% bodyfat am at least as good looking, we both did calisthenics at the same time and both started at around the same time. My friend is much more insecure than me. I have always like him as a person. But then he gets married and I am still a 22 year old virgin. Many of my other friends are in long relationships. So many people I know are much more successful and accomplished than me. I get really really insecure when I see this. But my friend who is basically a chad is more insecure than me. This proves the blackpill. Yes I should be insecure because I am a 22 year old virgin with no luck with women, however my friend is much more insecure than me, even though he is more accomplished than me, he has gotten more luck with women, he has a girlfriend, he is very good looking. Many other people I know are more accomplished than me. But yet, my friend is more insecure than me. This is the blackpill, you can accomplish everything in life but still be insecure ?