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AITA for not giving my brother any of my pies after he disrespected me and my baking?

Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole

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My brother and I each watched one another's kids on different weekends for the past two months so we could have a weekend with our significant others. We'd drop off the kids on Friday night and pick them up Saturday afternoon, so that way we could get a whole night of sleeping in. When I dropped off my kids my brother offered to pay me for babysitting my niece and nephew with his money and my husband and I refused and told him we were just doing it as a favor. He tried to insists multiple times. I think it's worth mentioning that I'm only 20 and he's 28 and I live in a one story apartment while he lives in a two story house so it was a lot easier for me to watch the kids at my place then it was for him to watch mine at his place.<br><br>I had been having a very stressful week and decided that I would spend most of Saturday baking. I made a total of 6 pies and 2 extra pies that were smaller then the normal ones that were for my neighbors kids.<br><br>I spend a good amount of the day making those pies, and at 8 my husband and I had to leave to pick up the kids. I asked him to put 4 of the pies in his car while I put the remaining 2 and 2 smaller pies in my car.<br><br>As we were driving to my brother's house my husband asked what I was planning on doing with the pies. I told him I planned on saving two for the week and giving the other two to my mom and dad. He asked why I wasn't bringing one to my brother since I made 6 and I told him I just didn't feel like bringing one over.<br><br>When we got to my brother's house my niece and nephew were excited to see us and wanted to show us their new toys. I asked my brother if it was okay if I left the pies in my car and he said yes. My niece and nephew wanted to help me put the pies away so I told them I'd wait to put them away until Sunday. I told my brother to drive the kids to my husband's car while I got the other pies. I asked him to be careful with them since they were breakable and he said okay.<br><br>He sat the pies down on the seat and I asked him again to be careful since I spent hours making them. He rolled his eyes and said yeah, whatever. I asked my husband to grab one of the pies while I grabbed the other and my brother said I didn't have to do it myself and that he can do it. He grabbed the pie and dropped it on the ground. I asked him again to be more careful because the other pie was the last strawberry pie I had and I was planning on saving it.<br><br>He looked at me smugly and dropped the other pie on the ground. I was really upset and I told him I was going to get the kids and go but before I did I told him that I was never bringing my baking over to his house again. He started to laugh at me but I just turned my back on him and went to get the kids.<br><br>When we got home I told my husband what happened and he told me I should've just given him a pie. I told him I didn't want to after what he did but he said I was being petty. Later that night he said that I was being selfish with my baking and I told him that I spend so much time making my baked goods and that I get really upset when people don't treat it nicely.<br><br>AITA for refusing to make a new pie for my brother and telling him I'll never share my baking with him again?

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