I just had a conversation with my boyfriend in which he called the idea of men having to do chores "extreme feminism"

I don't know what to do, he's a good man and a great partner in most respects, but the more I know about feminism and the more I learn to recognize red flags, the more I realize that this is a deal-breaker.<br><br>I know this post isn't really the right fit for this sub, but I'm usually pretty well-served by the wisdom of this community. What would you do in my shoes?<br><br>