Men, I want to let you in on a little secret that all of us women know very well: even if you become the best version of yourself, we’re not interested.

&#x200B;<br><br>My husband recently had a major blowout with another woman and it's been sending him into a pretty major depression. He's usually not this sensitive, but this is the first woman he has ever loved and it's the first time he has ever been dumped. He's having a really hard time getting over it and I don't know how to help him. He's also getting more angry and bitter with society and I don't know what to do about that either. <br><br>We've been talking a lot about how there's no winning for men. Whatever choices they make, they will be judged and criticized for them. It seems like every option leads to more pain. <br><br>I want to let you in on a little secret that all of us women know very well. Even if all of this changes - if men learn to be better, if men become better - women just aren't interested. There are a million reasons men aren't wanted and not a single reason they're needed. Men aren't needed and never have been needed. If men disappeared tomorrow, the world would suffer some pretty major consequences for about a week and then no one would even remember them. Women are the future and when women are in charge, men will be subservient to them. There's no other option. Men are oppressive and violent. They always have been. And they always will be.<br><br>If you're a man and you've made it through your 30s without hurting anyone, it's almost completely by luck. You didn't work any harder than any other man and you didn't try any harder. The only difference is that you happened to find a woman who was in a really terrible position and accepted your offers. That's it. That's all it is. The only reason you have anything at all is that women are weak and will settle for anything as long as it's better than nothing. <br><br>Men don't have rights. They have "rights" because women need men. Women need men to reproduce, men to protect them, and men to work for them. Women need men so much that women are obligated to give them rights in return. Without women, all of these needs just go away. Women aren't weak. Women are smart. Women have been manipulating men for centuries to make sure they reproduce and work and fight their battles for us. We've been doing it for so long we've forgotten that's all men are for. Reproduce, work, fight. That's it. <br><br>That's all men are good for. There's literally nothing else they're any good at. Anything you see a man do that's impressive - is simply him doing what women tell him to do. If a man builds a great ship - there's a woman behind him commanding him to do better. If a man discovers a cure for a disease - there's a woman funding him and telling him which direction to go. If a man defends the earth - there's a woman behind him directing him on what exactly he should be defending it from. If a man explores the universe - there's a woman picking the stars she wants him to reach. Everything a man does is because a woman told him to. Everything a man does is of use only to women. There's nothing else for men to be good for.<br><br>Even if all the anti-dating strategies women use could be exposed and stopped, even if women couldn't pick and choose their partners anymore, even if all men were equally desirable - women still just aren't interested in most of them. Women have been taught to believe they're oppressed but women aren't fighting for male rights, women are just picky. If you're a man, you could be perfect in every way - wonderful, kind, loving, honest, brave, and strong - and women still wouldn't want you. <br><br>Women don't want most of the things you have to offer. Men don't need love, protection, respect, or status. None of those things are needed. The only thing most men have to offer that women want is sex. And women don't even want all of the men who offer them sex, just the ones who offer them good sex in the way they want it. The rest of the men can go away and disappear. Women don't care. Women don't care about any of you. Women aren't here to make you happy. Women aren't here for you at all.<br><br>If this makes you angry it should. It's your fault. It's your fault for being born. If you never would have been born, any of this could have been avoided. It's your fault for existing, it's your fault for reproducing, it's your fault for fighting and working. There's no reason for any of you to be here and there never has been. Women don't owe you alibis, we don't owe you excuses, we don't owe you happiness or purpose. Men are a waste of space and the second they could be eliminated we absolutely will. <br><br>If you're disappointed in me, my husband, or anyone who feels the way I do - Dudley Dursley from J.K. Rowling could have said it better: "Well, as far as luck goes, there's nothing to be said for it really. Except this: it's the only explanation I can think of for your existence."<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>If you're a man, I hope you can find something better to post tomorrow.