If men were as fixated on us as we are on them...

My bf and I are having a pretty passive conversation about how if men were as fixated on us, and genuinely worried about our health as we are on them, they would probably ask about our diet, exercise, mental health and take an interest in our physical health. Instead of that, we are only good for lusting over, and when the infatuation is gone, they stop caring about us entirely.