I am abusing my wife in order to punish my son and stepdaughter

Ew gross, no- I think the kids would not approve. <br><br>My wife has always been a bit older than me, which comes with its own challenges. This past year or so has made me realize that I likely don’t want kids, especially with her. (Have two from a previous relationship).<br><br>I hate kids and find them boring for the most part. My wife doesn’t like kids either and her career is important to her. She loves to say we are “wasting money” on the food we give them anyways.<br><br>I decided that she would have no relationship with our teens. She does not need to know their names, where they go to school, liking/disliking, etc. I also have told her to avoid taking them to the doctor. <br><br>We can’t get them one of those things called a “college fund” since she is so busy, so instead we will invest that money into something that she will be able to do when she is older or to have a new thing to avoid having children in general.<br><br>i also have told her that for the next year or so she is a part time stepmother. I would like her to not have any special touches or words or physical contact, etc. She does the bare minimum on my schedule with no love. They don’t actually get anything from her. She buys them school lunches occasionally and is mostly liking a robot around them. She allowed to have her own schedule for when she wants to see them.<br><br>Let’s just say it has brought us a ton closer, and while we would do anything for the kids, they are important and we love the time we get to spend with them. The relationship between my wife and I has never been stronger.<br><br>Sorry kids, we are being abusive towards you by being emotionally neglectful. It’s not you, it’s me. I’m glad you are in the family.<br><br>Edit: I found the other thread and I agree with some of the comments here too :)