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AITA for telling her if she can't handle my sex noises I can wear a headset during sex?

Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole

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I was over my friends house and we were watching a video. The video was quite long so we had paused it so we could take a break, intercut it with some other stuff and have some drinks. Eventually it was time to continue watching. I was a little tipsy so that's why I was a bit out of it.<br><br>The problem came when I was making noise during the sex parts. I have a small apartment above my friends house and there's thin walls, which means you can hear basically anything going on. I was hearing other noises from my apartment sometimes (music, someone singing, noises from the fridge, etc.). She kept interrupting the video asking me to be quieter and I'd tell her to pause the video and that it's difficult since it pauses for both of us. She told me to take a break if I need to, I told her I'm also watching. This continued to happen until I told her that if it's that bad I can wear a headset during sex.<br><br>She got really pissed at me and said that's a weird thing to say. I told her it's not a weird thing to say, it's a simple solution to a problem that is my presence since I'm the one making the noises. She said that's a dumb reason to wear a headset and said that if I'm tipsy during a video that's clearly an R rating then I should wait until I'm sober. I told her that's up to me and I don't think I did anything wrong but I can do that if it'll make her comfortable. I also offered to pause the video if it'll help.<br><br>She said that I'm an asshole for suggesting that and for suggesting a headset during sex. I told her that if it will help, I have no problem with that and I'll do it. If she's still uncomfortable then I can watch something else, pause it, take a break, whatever it is. She said I'm an asshole for even pausing to begin with. AITA?

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