AITA for not giving my husband money to buy a house ?

Ok so I always wanted to live in a big city like NYC for a long time but my husband wanted to live in a small town where he could buy a house that has 4 bedrooms and a big backyard. So he picked the town, bought a house and my son and I had to move here last year. I don't like it at all, it's very boring, I don't like the fact that you have to do everything by car, and the town is very conservative and I don't fit in well, I miss my favorite restaurant (you have to travel three hours to get there) and the park. So I told my husband that I wanted to go back to the big city and we should have made a decision together but he told me that I'd been there for three years and that was enough so now it's his turn. I told him that we should make a decision together and that I had no right to decide on his own and he said that I never cared about what he wanted and that he always did what I wanted (this is not true) and that I'm just being selfish.<br><br>So, I told him that it's his chance to give me a chance and that I will do it again and that he'll have another chance and he started yelling at me saying that I was being selfish and that I don't care about him. Three days ago, he said he got a new job in a big city close to where I wanted to live and that's why I need to give him money to buy a new house. I said no and he called me selfish and said that he did that for me and gave me my chance. So am I the asshole for not giving him any money ?