I am divorced and I am happy.

Throwaway account warnig. Ever since I was a kid I knew I wanted to be married and have kids. I went all out for my wedding. My personality is that I want for other people, what I want for myself. I knew that I am a bit of a weirdo, so I wanted to go all out to celebrate that. My wife came from a pretty traditional town in Poland and she missed home. I was in resedential construction for about 15 years and I had a bit of money saved. That, along with the fact that the housing market and economy was starting to tank, I took my money and bought our first house to fix up. And then I took that profit and bought another house to fix up. And another. I was doing so well that I was able to quit my job and take a full time construction job with the company that I hired out to do my houses that I bought and fixed up. It did not take long for the profit to dry up and the houses just became something to do. I was spending less time at home and my wife was getting lonely. She was talking about going back to her home country, but was afraid to leave because she did not think that she could make it on her own. So she convinced me to stop working construction and open a restuarant with her. I think that it was just a power move, but I wanted to make it work. I was the lease holder and the managing partner. And I did everything that I could to make it work. I spent 80+ hours a week making sure that it was tip top. I paid every bill as soon as I got it. I made sure that my employees were happy. I had a great reputation online. One day my wife came to me crying because she did not know how we were going to pay the employees. I told her that she did not have to worry. We had over 15k in the account. And then she told me that she did not have access to the account. She had paid for a trip back to Poland when she knew that we were struggling. And when she was done, she had no money and could not get money because she did not have access to the account. I was really angry. I told her that she was in trouble and that the police would be called if she did not give me back my money. She told me that she would never go back home. And that she would never leave. I told her that she had no choice. I told her that I would of given her anything that she wanted, but after what she did, I would never trust her again and I wanted her out. <br><br>And that is where it started. She was able to use a good lawyer and get a 50/50 split of the restuarant. She lived in the back room of the restuarant for 2 years, but did not work a day. I was able to pay her wage as well as my own. She was able to pay her lawyer and lived comfortably for 2 years while the divorce was happening. In the end I was able to show that she was not able to use the money that we were supposed to pay employees on a trip to Poland, and we were able to get a judgement in my favor. I was able to secure custody of our dog and keep my name on the restuarant, but she was able to get all of the assets. She used my name and she used my dog. She used all the pictures of us that we took on vacation to make it look like we were still together. She had pictures of me and her in the wedding dress. She had pictures of me and her at disney world. She even used the video of our wedding ceremony and put it up in the window of the restuarant. We were divorced but she was still using our wedding ceremony to get customers. She would put her arm around me when customers were there. She introduced me as her husband. She accused me of being abusive and told our employees to make sure that she was safe from me. She told our employees that I was a jealous husband and I would not let her talk to other men. It was really bad. But I just worked through it. I spent all my time at the restuarant to make sure that everything was running righ. It's been a long time since the divorce and I have kept it running. It has been a lot of work, but I was able to use our divorce money to buy out her shares of the restuarant. I was able to make sure that she was not welcome anymore. I now do everything I can to make sure that she is not able to use my name or my business for anything. I do not allow our employees to give out any information. I do not allow pictures to be taken. I was able to go to google and get all of the pictures of her and I locked down. Everything about her is locked down. Customers are not able to talk about her being at the restuarant. And if they do, I sue for defamation. I locked her out of the building and the account. She does not know how to use a computer so she was not able to figure it out. I pay my employees enough that they do not need to talk about our divorce. She has spent the last 5 years of her life trying to get me to fall in love with her again. I have declined every time. I will not do anything for her. I have told her that if she had been a good wife that I would be happy to help her, but she wasn't so I am not. Now the restuarant is righ. I have employees that are happy to work. I now have assets that are worth a lot of money. And I can now be happy. I have locked down everything that she needs to survive and I can now go on with my life. She is up to almost 90k in judgements that I have on her. She has not been able to find a job. She is about to lose her visa. And she is alone. One day, she will talk to the press about how evil I am. But by the time she does, I will already be gone. I will be in another country with a good passport. I will have a lot of money. I will own assets that will make money while I am gone. And I do not have to worry about her. I will not be with another woman for a long time. I know that I am a good man. I am doing everything that I can to make sure that I and the people around me are happy. But I also make sure that people know that if you screw with me, I will make sure that you regret it for the rest of your life. We live by a code. Look out for yourself. Take care of yourself. Do everything that you can to make sure that you are happy. If you do something that hurts me, I will make sure that you regret it. But if you are a good person, I will do everything that I can to help you. I will give you a hand up. I will make sure that you are safe from people who want to hurt you. I will do everything that I can to help you do everything that you want to do. I will make sure that you make it to your highest level. <br><br>She was not a good person. But I am a good person. I am happy. I am doing well. She is not.