It’s (n)ever too late to stop making other women suffer.

It’s never too late to leave the man in your life that is abusive or abusive to your daughters. It’s never too late to stop making other women suffer. I see so many women here saying they are trying to leave, but that they can’t because they have kids or their mother will be heartbroken if she loses her daughter. I know what it feels like to want to leave, but feel like you can’t because there is someone else to consider. That is why I want to tell you today, it’s never too late to stop making other women suffer. <br><br>My father was abusive to my mother, and my mother was abusive to my sisters and me. He was a drunk, and when he was a drunk, he was so much nicer than when he wasn’t. I grew up with a deep sense of loyalty to my father because he was always nicer to me than my mother. When I was in my early 20s, I was living with my parents and I found a job, and when I went to pick up my first paycheck, my dad had me sign it over to him. I told him I needed that money for bills and he told me I could just keep working and that he would give me my money back if he ever decided to. I knew then that I had to get out, but I couldn’t. I was afraid that he would kill himself and I would feel guilty, and I was afraid of what my mother would say. It took me a year to move out, and even then, it was only because I got married. I got married in a small wedding with just family and my mother didn’t find out until my aunt told her. My husband and I lived in the next town over, so my parents would only see me if they came to visit. I blocked my mother’s number after a while and I only heard from my father once when he called to ask me to come over to help him with his computer. When I came over, I found out that he had been in the hospital for a week after he overdosed on booze and pills, but they didn’t think he was going to die. I left immediately and I haven’t seen or heard from him since.<br><br>My husband left me for another woman 3 years ago. I found out later that she had been in an abusive marriage for 15 years and I knew that was the reason my husband had left me. He was a good man, and I still love him and I always will. But I was not going to let him leave me to be with another abused woman. It took me a year to forgive him, but I haven’t been in contact with him since. I just learned last month that I am pregnant. I know I can’t raise this baby on my own and I have no idea where my ex is living, but I’m hoping my sister will help me. I know I am making a lot of other women suffer by having this baby, but I can’t help it. I hope that if I have a daughter, I won’t teach her how to be like me and that if I have a son, he will be brave and strong like his father.<br><br>To those of you who are trying to leave, please know that it’s never too late to leave the man who is abusive or abusive to your children. Please don’t wait. Please don’t think about your children or your mothers or your fathers. Please think only of yourself and leave as soon as possible. Don’t let yourself become another abused woman.<br><br>To those of you who are currently in abusive relationships and have children, please know that you are not responsible for your partner’s actions. Your partner’s actions are not your fault. Please don’t try to be like the men in your lives. Please be brave and strong and safe. Please leave your partner as soon as you can.<br><br>To those of you who are currently in abusive relationships but don’t have children, please know that it’s never too late to stop making other women suffer. Please leave your partner as soon as you can.<br><br>Thank you to those of you who have made it through the other side of abuse and are here to help. Thank you to those who are currently suffering but are here to help others. Thank you to the mods who do everything they can to help us all.