I want my husband to have a get -- but will probably dump me when he does

It's already been like 300 years since he agreed to give it to me so I'm starting to get a little impatient.<br><br>I know -- why didn't I force the issue by withholding? The problem is, he's an amazing lover and I would never miss a chance to be with him.<br><br>And I also know what you're thinking, why didn't I -- or he -- do the "proper" thing and start divorce proceedings? The answer is, he's very wealthy, and given his character and the suckiness of the courts, it would play out in the most sucky way possible.<br><br>But given how nice a guy he is, I'm sure he will give me the get even if he doesn't have the -- incentive -- of a trade anymore. And if he doesn't have the -- incentive -- of a trade then I'm still going to want to have sex with him, because he's such an amazing lover. Just like I wanted to have sex with him without the -- incentive -- of a trade already. So he will still get the sex, and the money, and a marriage where his partner treats him disrespectfully. <br><br>But he would be free, I guess. And I can't know for sure that he feels trapped in this marriage, or would even want to be free of it. But I do know that he's looked at younger women occasionally -- not anything too gross (yet).