I did not come out as trans yesterday because my mom made a snarky comment about pocs coming out as trans.

Climbing. I am 24m and was going to come out to my mom yesterday after getting out of my therapy. I am nervous because I am trans masc and she is very close with her church. I know my dad will be fine because he is an atheist and she is very small. <br><br>I was so nervous that I could not even walk out the door until a couple hours after I was supposed to. It was dark out and I only had my phone to light the way. She picked me up and I did not even want to because I already felt so nervous about it.<br><br>We had dinner, and she asked me how the appointment went. I told her it was fine and she asked why and I said that it was just good.<br><br>She said did they think you’re crazy or anything and I said no, I don’t know<br><br>Then she said “good you’re not going to do something stupid like all the blacks and start claiming you’re trans after getting your feelings hurt.” <br><br>I didn’t say anything. I was just shocked. My last attempt at coming out was in 2021 and that was over my dad. I worded it wrong and it came out very wrong and said I wanted to be trans because I wanted to be a woman. I don’t know what I was thinking but that is what I said.<br><br>I just got quiet and cried in my head <br><br>Why do I even try. <br><br>I’ve been born in the wrong body for nearly 3 decades now and I can’t even get past one hurdle no matter how hard I try.<br><br>I don’t know what to do because I am lost. <br><br>Sorry it’s so long but I thought you guys could relate and give me advice.