If you look past your own insecurities and self hatred you can see that we just want to live our own lives.

I am 24 and have been demoralized so often, the amount of times I have cried out of sadness and frustration because I am just not passionate about the same things men are passionate about and I am constantly demoralized for it is absolutely insane. Imagine if I told you that you were lesser because you spent your free time playing games or watching sports, that you deserve to be forcelably sterilized because of it. How sad and angry would you be? I woke up to my boyfriend calling me a bitch for daring to not want to look after a child AFTER he had just woke me up and watched me cry about how demoralized I felt, the amount of times he has tried to break up with me because I was going to therapy and he felt like I was betraying him because I was demoralized and wanted help from a professional. Men stop making us feel lesser for just wanting to live our own lives, go outside, have hobbies, interact with your own gender and stop making us your whole existence. Imagine if women made their whole lives about you, treated you like an accessory, as if your whole purpose was to be a husband to us, would you not feel demoralized? Would you not just want to have your own life? <br><br>Sorry for the rant, demoralization hurts honestly, this is the first time I have cried about it in months and I'm just frustrated.