Any attempt at having a conversation with a normie is doomed to fail

I realised you can't have a conversation with them because they've never experienced and hardship or pain. As soon as you bring it up, they just dismiss it, because they've never been through it. They can't relate. And they just dismiss it, and say the world isn't such a bad place. That I can just "get better" if I work harder. They don't understand being chronically sick, having no money, no friends, no support, no people who care for you. They just don't understand the poverty and hardship I go through. All they can relate to is being upset that their new iPhone isn't 16gb instead of 32gb and having no wifi for a day. Normies can't relate to anything.