Men 30 romeo can I fuck a 21 year old juliet?

Not literally, but the age gap is pretty big by a lot of people's standards irl. Granted relationships are a choose your own adventure deal, you won't know what the future holds until you get there, but I've been told that you never compare relationships. Yet, everyone will secretly (and loudly) compare your relationship to the relationships around them. So I'm just wondering what you guys think of this age difference in this day and age. I've read articles about women being more sexually liberated and mature at this age while men are probably at their peak. I'm curious about your opinions since I know men and women will have different perspectives on this topic. In other words can a 30 year old man and a 21 year old woman be compatible? Thanks.