Everyone says you need to change who you are to be attractive to people

So I went to the gym and got buff, but people aren't impressed<br><br>I got a job and a nice car, but people think I'm a materialist<br><br>I started going to parties and drinking, but people thought I was a bad influence<br><br>I started wearing nice clothes, but people thought I was trying too hard<br><br>I tried to talk about science and history and culture, but people thought I was boring<br><br>I tried to listen to people and be empathetic, but people thought I was insincere<br><br>I started reading books again, but people thought I was a recluse<br><br>I started going to church, but people thought I was a zealot<br><br>I'm done trying.