I wish the term incel became associated with the behavior of making fun of a woman’s appearance in general.

Not just the ones you’re attracted to. <br><br>The incel crowd is a good example of what happens when a community is built around a behavior rather than a belief. Incels believe that women don’t want them and that it’s unfair. This is understandable. But they then use their belief as an excuse to be horrible. <br><br>I’ve been incel before and I realized that women were just not that interested in me. But I didn’t make it a big deal. I just accepted it and moved on. <br><br>I did realize that I was pretty short and not the best looking guy and so I did things to improve myself, like getting fit and learning to dance, but I didn’t make being ugly an excuse to hate women.