Fiancé(j28) has barely any hair left on his head. I(f20) pick him up on it. He doesn't take it well. I think I over stepped.

I don't know if I handled the situation right. I generally don't like to make fun of people, but I don't think what I do should be happening. <br><br>Fiancé(j28) is a great man. He has everything, money, looks, kindness etc. <br><br>I(j20)am very critical about my own appearance and how I look. <br><br>Fiancé would be like "I like how you look with long hair". <br><br>I would reply "I like how you look with a full head of hair" in a playful tone. <br><br>I know he has a receding hair line now, and has lost a lot of hair. <br><br>Does that make it wrong for me to joke about it. I don't do it maliciously, but I obviously don't compliment myself. So I don't compliment him. <br><br>I'm not saying I don't like him at all. <br><br>I like to be a smart mouth with him a lot. <br><br>I say things like "fat boy" "ugly" when talking to him. <br><br>But he's not fat and he's not ugly. So I shouldn't say that right?<br><br>I like to take jabs to lighten up the mood, but is that a bad thing?<br><br>I want to work on this more. My words seem to hurt him. Especially the hair thing. He wasn't taking it lightly. But I didn't mean it. I seem to just talk out of my head a lot. I want to find ways to be funny without hurting him.<br><br>I know I'm a burden. I know I'm annoying and he probably deserves better. <br><br>Anyways, what's better ways of being funny in a relationship?<br><br>What should a women do to lighten the mood? <br><br>Do I have to be a sadist and like when he takes jabs at me. <br><br>I like to keep things light and fun, but at what cost.