I don’t understand why women sleep around in their early 20s

This is a throwaway account as I don’t want to ruin my personal Facebook account if it gets doxxed but I’m a girl who has had sex with a decent amount of guys in my early 20s (not a lot but just enough to where I can make observations). I’ve also hooked up with many guys I’ve met at parties. <br><br>I get messages from these same guys I hooked up with months ago and then they proceed to hit on me and try to ask for sex. I can distinctly remember each of these guys telling me “I can’t wait to tell all my friends we hooked up” and “you don’t know how lucky you are I’m hooking up with you.” And then I find out a week later they told all their friends. <br><br>It’s also annoying that these guys have 0 respect for me when we meet up and just immediately are all over me like “shut up and let me fuck you stupid bitch.” I don’t care if it’s hook up culture I expect to be treated like a human being at least if we’re going to do anything sexual. It’s honestly happened with every guy I’ve hooked up with and I don’t understand why it’s like that. I’m gonna stop hooking up with random guys from now on because I feel so disgusted with men in general. <br><br><br><br>Edit: stop projecting I said I hooked up with a decent amount of guys in my 20’s not 20+ in one year lmao. Plus the men I hooked up with were mostly in my classes or from parties and I didn’t randomly meet up with strange men to hook up.