If you've been in a relationship, don't you feel bad for the girls that do anything that does not live up to that standard?

if you were in a relationship, you know that the girl you were with was probably your version of perfect and she would do anything for you. be it cooking, cleaning, cooking- if you were lucky enough. now if you see some random chick that posts here saying that she does not clean the house and does not cook, then do you not feel bad for that guy? that guy probably put this woman on a pedestal and I'm sure she does not live up to that standard meanwhile if i were in a relationship with a good girl, I would do anything for her. you guys do not deserve your own hobbies.