A man needs to see what women are really like before he marries one.

I grew up down the street from a Familie’s restaurant. My mother was a waitress. I started dish washing there at 15 and worked all the way up to running the kitchen. I worked at that restaurant for 22 years. I met my ex-wife there. She was a waitress. She had an ass like J-lo and legs like Tina Turner. She was also very kind and a good friend. I loved her for many years before I got the nerve to ask her out. I was just a cook. I figured she wouldn’t be interested. She was young, had a child and was beautiful. Just about every guy I worked with wanted her. Eventually, it became a long distance relationship. We talked for hours and hours about our deepest thoughts. As a cook in a kitchen, I had a lot to say about women. After years of her hearing me talk about my thoughts on women I think she really got to know me pretty well. I got to know her. When we talked I listened to what she had to say. That’s why I was able to get her. <br><br>In the 80’s I can’t tell you how many happily married couples I saw get a divorce. I saw it happen time and time again. It was always the same. As soon as they got a divorce, women would start coming out of the woodwork. They would pour out all the deep dark secrets of the marriage. He always had to buy her this and that. She wanted this and that and he wouldn’t buy it for her. He wanted this and that and she didn’t want to give it to him. All he did for her their entire marriage and she wanted more. All of the money he had to work for and all of the things he had to buy her and all of the things he had to do for her and she wanted more. The truth is that they were never happy. None of them wanted to be married. They were using marriage as a means to get what they wanted. Then, when they got what they wanted they dumped their husband. <br><br>My dad was a truck driver. My mom made more than he did. She cheated on him consistently. That is all I ever saw. Women cheating on their husbands and rejecting their husbands romantic notions. If a man will listen women will tell him approximately 1000 reasons not to get involved with them under any circumstances. Women are very discriminatory. My ex-wife and I were friends for many years. When we got married, we had been friends for 25 years. I knew in my heart that she loved me. We had great times together. We had sex all of the time but in my experience, I knew damn well that she could wake up one day and hate me. I always thought the worst. It killed me every time. I didn’t know what else to do though.