My girlfriend (F25) of 2 years wants me (M29) to be more dominant?

My girlfriend (F25) wants me (M29) to be more dominant in the bedroom and is introducing a few items into our sex life. This is all new to me and I’m pretty inexperienced sexually so I was hoping to get some advice from this sub. <br><br>So basically my girlfriend (F25) of 2 years wants me (M29) to be more dominant in the bedroom and is introducing a few things into the bedroom to spice things up. She’s always been the more initiating party in terms of PIV sex but she’s now really interested in exploring a more BDSM side. <br><br>We had a conversation about this and she said she wants me to take control and be more rough in the bedroom. She’s introduced a few items including handcuffs, blindfolds, and a dildo that she’s riding and using during our sessions. <br><br>While I’m excited to explore this new world with her, I’m also a little defensive because I’m used to hearing her say that I’m a “caring and compassionate lover” who is able to show her what she enjoys, but now she wants more roughness and immediacy in the bedroom. <br><br>I’m not sure where to begin with this or how to broach the subject further. She’s reassured me that I’m always been a fantastic lover, but I’m still struggling to come to terms with this request.