I'm a woman. And I'm not a victim. I don't need anyone's help. And I'm not just a mother.

I hate that my life is judged by the fact that I have two kids. I'm so tired of people assuming that I don't have a brain of my own or that my kids are my sole responsibility. I've worked my whole career since I graduated in college and I've always done my job well. I don't get a discount just because I have kids and I don't need to be babysat either.<br><br>And I'm not just a mother. I have a brain and I have things to say. I'm a woman who has interests and I like to watch Netflix and take care of myself. I have a lot to contribute and I'm so tired of the idea that my only value is to my kids.