I (28m) have been stuck in a friendzone my whole life, not anymore. How can I move past it?

Throwaway for the sake of dear friend who I'm going to hurt.<br><br>I'm in love with her. She's 28f, and we're both share same birthday even our virgo zodiac that matches too lol. So we had instant connection and started being friend since we were 20 now we're 28.<br><br>We were really thick share everything, helped everything even dropping everything we were doing to hang out. She really is a person of a friend I'll love to have in my life. She would make you smile everyday and light up the whole room with her bright lips. I've never really had a problem if she'll be my girlfriend or not she's my best friend and I love her in both way really but I don't know how to make her see me in different way.<br><br>Includes me in her girls night out, let me look at her dirty clothes and I know she never feels any kind of discomfort talking with me about her stuff. So I decided it's enough at this point I need to make a change.<br><br>So I went to salon to get a fresh new haircut and bought some fresh new cologne, suits, and tie. I'm currently working in a law firm and I bought some expensive outfits.<br><br>I posted on social media and got lots of likes, it feels like I got a facelift lol. I'm so sick of her not seeing me in a different way and so I've decided to cut the contact and move on, it's enough.<br><br>I feel so hurt and offended. How can you be best friend with someone and then ignore them for a long time? She even dropping everything we were doing to hang out.<br><br>So I removed her from my social media, stopped texting, and hung out with her. I'm currently in therapy to move on from it. It really hurts knowing that I love her so much and how much hurt and offended I'm even if I still love her I don't know how to go back.<br><br>She really is an amazing person.