AITA for not giving up my hotel room for my SIL's wedding?
Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole
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My SIL (hsb F27) and I (F27) have been at odds since we were 13. She and my brother started dating when I was 13 and started moving in with him when I was 16. We have to deal in the medical field so I have seen her get drunk and high (which I think is why they started their relationship in the first place). I never really liked her but I have tolerated her in the past. My brother and I are both very close. <br><br>They moved out of state for work and have been here since 2019. They are getting married in 2024 and they both want me to attend. I decided not to attend and am spending my wedding weekend at the beach instead. I decided to pay for a non refundable hotel reservation because I was excited to go on the beach. I decided to pay non refundable so I would have to get a full refund if I ended up needing to go. I payed for my hotel in advance. <br><br>They found out and asked me if I still wouldn't be able to attend and told me they needed me to attend because I had a role in the wedding. I told them they needed to find someone else because I wasn't going to attend. They asked me if I would give up my hotel reservation so they could get married and I told them no. <br><br>They are really pissed at me and think this is fucked up. I don't think it's fucked up and don't see how it would be a big deal. I am a wedding guest so I don't see why I would have to give up my room for their wedding. AITA?
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