Why you won't be able to change your personality and your life

One of the biggest lie you've been told is that you are able to change for the better. <br><br>You've been told countless times, by countless people, and countless time that if you work hard you can achieve anything.<br><br>If you are socially inept, you will be able to change by working on yourself, by putting yourself out of your comfort zone, meeting new people, joining clubs, rustling some leaves.<br><br>If you are ugly, you will be able to change yourself through exercise and diet. That your body can change so much that you can become a much more attractive person. They will also tell you that if you want to change your body, you'd better do something about it.<br><br>If you are depressed, they will tell you that you can change your mental state by being more positive, doing-instaring-attitude, by going through therapy ect.<br><br>If you are overweight/obese, they will tell you that you can lose weight by dieting and exercising. "If you are overweight/obese, you are that way because of bad decisions you've made, you can change yourself by making the right decisions".<br><br>The reality is that your personality is more rigid than you think it is. You can't change by just willing it to. You can't wake up tomorrow and decide to change everything. You're stuck with who you are. You can't change your personality. You can't change your life.<br><br>What this means is that you can't become an outgoing person if you've always been an introverted one. Or vice versa.<br><br>What this also means is that you can't change your life through your decisions, your actions ect. You will be who you are no matter what. Your surroundings will influence you more than you will be able to change them/body/bodily functions ect. And your surroundings are completely up to chance. It's something that you can't control. Life is a massive lottery.<br><br>What this also means is that you are not responsible for your life. You are not responsible for how you are raised. You are not responsible for who your parents are. You are not responsible for how you look, even if you have an unhealthy lifestyle. <br>You are not responsible for your mental state. <br><br>Your mental state is the result of circumstances beyond your control. If you are depressed, it is not because of you, it is because of the world we live in. You are not responsible for your surroundings. They are not up to you. You are not responsible for your life.<br><br>Your physical state is the result of circumstances beyond your control. If you are overweight, it is not because you failed to diet怒, it is because of who you are. If you are ugly, it is not because you didn't put enough effort into yourself, it is because of your genes. If you failed to put enough effort into yourself, it is because of who you are. Your physical state is not up to you. It is not up to you.<br><br>You are stuck in the body you have. You are stuck with the brain you have. You are stuck with the environment you have. You are not responsible for who you are. You are not responsible for your surroundings. You are not responsible for your life. <br><br>You are not responsible for your surroundings. You are not responsible for how you've been raised. You are not responsible for what you have. You are not responsible for your environment and how it affects you. <br><br>It is not up to you. You can't control it. It is not up to you. <br><br>You are not responsible for how you are raised. You are not responsible for your surroundings. You are not responsible for who your parents are. You are not responsible for how you live your life. It is not all about personal decisions. You are not entirely responsible for your life. You are a product of chance.<br><br>What this means is that your life is not the result of your efforts. It's the result of who you are, of circumstance, of how you've been raised, of chance. <br><br>You can't change who you are. Your life is the result of who you are.<br><br>The reality is that you can't change who you are. You are the result of genetics and your environment, and both are not up to you. <br><br>If your life is shit, you can't change it. You are stuck in the environment you live in. If you are depressed, you will always be.<br><br>What this means is that you are not responsible for how you are. You are not responsible for your surroundings. You are not responsible for your mental state. You are not responsible for your physical state. You are not responsible for who you are. You are not responsible for your life. You are not responsible for your environment. You are not responsible for how you've been raised. <br><br>You are not responsible for your life.<br><br>You are not responsible for your life. You are not responsible for who you are. You are not responsible for what you have. You are not responsible for your life.<br><br>The reality is that you can't change anything. You can't change your environment. You can't change your life.<br><br>The reality is that we live in an individualistic society who uses the concept of personal responsibility to make people belief that they have the power to change everything about themselves.<br><br>This is not true, though. You can't change anything. You can't change your life. How you are raised, how you will live your life, what you have, what you are, is the result of who you are. Not of your decisions. Not of your efforts. Not of your work. Of who you are. Who you are is something that you can't change for the better.<br><br>You can't change anything. You can't change your mental state, your body, your life, your surroundings ect.<br><br>You won't be able to change anything. No matter what you try. 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