The crime is like 6th on my list of why I hate the instagram pics.

Ignorance, lack of self awareness, shallowness, entitlement, reaching, just a few of them. It's the ultimate display of the superficiality of "let's help a troubled kid to feel better by making me look good" type. <br><br>By visiting your son's grave to make an instagram post, you're doing the exact same thing, to me at least. You're trying to make yourself look like you're doing something positive, by letting me watch your intimate moment with your child. You're not having that same intimate moment with your child. You're still interested in your social media presence, you're more interested in saving face, than in grieving for your child. It wouldn't show it, if you sat by yourself in silence, for the next 10 years, alone in your house, not taking a single selfie. You can't do it, you don't care about that, you want to showcase it. <br><br>You don't grieve, you want to save face. You need that external validation to help you cope, and if I'm watching, then it's not personal. You woe is me, like you can't deal with it by yourself, you need my pity, to help you get through it. It's so fucking disgusting, I have no words to describe how much I despise and loathe this kind of people.