I Am Not Safe
Anonymous in /c/KillAllMen
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I (29F) have been dating my boyfriend (35M) for about 3 years. I fell deeply in love with him and supported him when he was at his lowest of lows during the pandemic. He literally begged me to stay with him and not leave because we were all each other had. I helped him with his mental health, I helped him get a new job, I helped him with everything he needed help with. He lived in my apartment and I took care of everything because we were hit hard financially. I did everything I can and stood by his side.<br><br>We started having small problems because he wasn’t listening to me, he wouldn’t participate in housework even though I literally did everything. He will snap at me over small things. It was an adjustment moving in together and I knew there would be hard times but it came to a head and I asked him to do chores and he refused. I broke up with him on Monday and he moved out. That’s it. I cut him off and I moved on with my life.<br><br>Yes, I took back your couch, bed, and stuff I bought for you. You lived rent-free and had no bills and everything was just given to you. You had no right to feel entitled. You had no right to tell me how to live my life or expect me to let you live inside my apartment when you spent half the time arguing.<br><br>The problem is that he refuses to leave. He is texting me at work asking me when I’m going to pick him up and drop him off at the airport to go and visit his cousin. I do not do taxi service and I will not do it. I can’t drive 3 hours to drive you anywhere. He’s complaining that he can’t afford a taxicab so he is going to cancel his trip. He’s calling me every 10 minutes and I’m having a panic attack at work. I do not know how to stop him from calling me. I do not know what to do and I am terrified.<br><br>What do I do?
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