My (33f) husband (35m) took me to a hotel for "the talk" - I'm 7 months pregnant now.

I apologize if this isn't the right subchambers. <br><br>So my husband and I went on a trip for our anniversary, I was 12 weeks pregnant with our first baby.<br><br>He took me to a beautiful hotel that I had been wanting to stay in for a long time. When we got to the room, he sat me on the bed and told me that he needed to talk to me about something important.<br><br>He basically told me that he had some concerns about me getting pregnant. He said that we don't have a lot in savings, that he wasn't sure if he would be ready for a family, etc. He said that if I wasn't okay with it, he could get something reversed. I started bawling because I had no idea that he felt this way.<br><br>He comforted me and reassured me that he would do whatever I wanted, that he loved me, etc. I told him that I was happy to have a baby with him and we had a wonderful anniversary weekend. I was a little hurt by his concerns but I didn't think much of it. <br><br>It's now been six months and I'm extremely tired all the time, my stomach is so big, my back hurts all the time, and I can't sleep in my own bed anymore. I just knew something was up. <br><br>My husband is always telling me that he can't get the day off work and that he's so busy with work. <br><br>I had a feeling that he may have actually went through with reversing whatever needs to be reversed. I confronted him about how he feels about being a dad and he started bawling. He said that he doesn't want to be a bad father, that he's just not ready to be a father, that he isn't strong enough to be a good dad, that he is in debt and he didn't want to bring a baby into the world that he can't provide for, that he can't get time off of work, that he is so busy. I felt like I had hit a rock bottom moment. I couldn't believe that I had been carrying and taking care of our child, alone, while he continued to party and enjoy his life like nothing was different. I was doing all of the housework and he wouldn't lift a finger to help. <br><br>I bawled and told him that I believed he actually went and reversed the pregnancy and that I only have a few weeks left. He started screaming and saying that it isn't true, that I am making accusations and I need to stop. I told him that I knew he was capable of it, that he had plenty of time and opportunities to go to the doctor and make sure the pregnancy wasn't "reversed", and that I was tired of his excuses and I wasn't going to sit there and listen to them anymore. <br><br>This has been the worst time in our relationship and I don't feel like he is a good man. We get into constant arguments. I feel so alone and I don't know how to move forward. He has probably destroyed our relationship completely. <br><br>Any thoughts or advice?