UPDATE:My(25m) gf(25f) got attacked by a man while we were on our date.
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So I posted here 6 weeks ago. I hadn't seen my GF in 2 years. We hadn't spoken in that time, but she was always on my mind. So I decided to look her up. One of my best friends told me she was in a really bad relationship, and that maybe I should give her a chance to be with someone who really loves her. I looked her up on Facebook. Nothing had really changed, aside from her getting a new job, and moving into a different apartment. We met up for drinks. We had a great time. We ended up staying at my place. It was like nothing had changed. We were back to being the way we used to be when we first started dating. I was there for a week, and it was like our relationship never ended.<br><br>​<br><br>After that I bought a ticket to go see her. I was there for 2 months. We would just spend our time together. We'd hang out, go on dates, eat, etc. I started to get uncomfortable with how close I was getting to her. I hadn't had any luck at finding a girlfriend in my city, and I was just enjoying her company so much. We were getting intimate. I was about to buy a house near her. But then I started to think about the future, and I decided to move to her city. I'd get a better job, and we could start our future together. I was so excited, and I told her all of this. I hadn't been there for a week when she texted me that she had to work late, so I'd just hang out at my friend's place. That was fine, but then she didn't text me the entire night. I messaged her, and she said I had to come pick her up from work. I was like okay, and she said what? I said I had to come pick her up from work, as she didn't have a car. She said she had one, and that I was dumb. I was like okay, and she said when will I be there. I told her I was busy, and she started cussing at me. She said she was all alone at work, and that she needed me there. I said she could take an Uber, and she said no. We were arguing, and then she hung up on me.<br><br>​<br><br>I was in shock, and I decided to ask my friends if she was okay. He said she was acting weird for a week, and he suggested I give her some space. I was heartbroken. We hadn't spoken in 2 weeks. I was starting to think about what I did wrong. Maybe it was a mistake to think about moving in with her. Maybe I came on too strong. I just didn't know what I did. I decided to give her space, but I was miserable. I tried to message her, but she blocked me. It's been 6 weeks since then, and I'm thinking about giving up. I miss her so much. I just want to be with her again, but I feel like it's impossible.<br><br>​<br><br>UPDATE: We already talked. She said she was afraid of a stalker ex, and he ended up attacking her. She's still scared, and she's scared of me too. She's not sure if she's ready for a relationship. She'll let me know in a few weeks.<br><br>​<br><br>She said sorry so many times, and she said she missed me too.
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