[UPDATE] My girlfriend told me she got pregnant but it's not mine. It's been the most stressful thing that's ever happened to me.
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So I finally sat down and wrote something out after my first post two weeks ago. I'm still stressed and feel like I've aged 20 years since this happened. Here's what happened in the last two weeks:<br><br>I went into the comments of my first post and read them. I read pretty much all of them. I set boundaries and made sure my girlfriend read the comments and saw that people knew she was reading the comments. <br><br>She kept calling me and texting me about doing a paternity test. I finally told her to go do one herself since I wasn't doing one. I told her I wanted space and time apart but that I still wanted her staying at my place. I was totally ready to kick her out but she told me she had no where else to go and would kill herself if she was alone. I pitied her and figured it would be easier to just have her stay here if I wanted anything changed in the room or wanted her clothed. <br><br>She begged me to be the father of her baby. She told me she would be an unwed single mother if I didn't step up. I told her I was done talking about this and I wasn't going to be the dad. <br><br>I told her my boundaries and she was not happy with them. I told her I still loved her but I wasn't in love with her anymore. She told me she could make me love her and asked if I wanted to poly open my relationship. She said she could get rid of the guy she slept with and no one would ever know because she's still a virgin. I told her that wasn't happening and she looked so defeated after I told her that. <br><br>I told her I wanted her wearing clothes around the house and she immediately started doing that. I told her I wanted her leaving a copy of everything she brought home or where she went doing and she immediately started making copies of everything. I told her no men could come to the house and she immediately stopped seeing her friends who are guys. I told her she couldn't go to certain places alone and she immediately stopped going. She's been doing everything I asked her to do. She hasn't been acting "pregnant" around the house like I've seen her act pregnant with her period. She has done special treats around the house though. <br><br>I've been sleeping in a different bed every night and she knows this. I told her she's not allowed to sleep with me and she has done nothing but comply. I told her I was going to be taking a car to her parents house so PREGNANT that she was teary eyed and asked me if I really wanted to keep the baby true formation from me. I told her I didn't want to keep the baby and she started crying and begging me to be the dad of her baby. <br><br>She started going through a lot of emotion on me and I've had to talk to her out of 3 suicide crises. She's cried so much that she can't breathe. She's begged for everything from me and has been acting extremely emotional. She asked me if I wanted a baby boy or a baby girl. She asked me if I wanted to name the baby something and what I wanted the name to be. I told her I didn't care what we named the baby and I didn't want to be the dad. She's been telling me I'm an ass for not wanting to be the dad of her baby for the last week and a half. <br><br>I finally told her I wanted her going to therapy and she started balling. She said she was doing everything I asked her to and I was still being mean to her. I told her she was staying here until I took a car to her parents house because that's where I was putting the baby once I gave it up for adoption. I told her if she couldn't comply with that then I'd make other arrangements and she started balling. <br><br>I told her I wanted her to make a list of every guy she had sex with since our relationship started and she immediately started crying and trying to suck on my dick. I told her no and I walked away. She's been screaming at me to help her and telling her she's dying because she can't suck my dick to relax. I've told her no over and over and she's been screaming me for the last hour. It's 10:41am on a Sunday. I hope someone feeds her kid because I sure as hell am not. <br><br>I blocked her friends on social media yesterday. I found out the guy she slept with is on Chambers. It was a one time thing she said she had no idea she wasn't on any sexually transmitted infections for and he's an acquaintance of hers who she just met at a party. I looked at his profile and he doesn't have a clue anything is happening or that she's pregnant.<br><br>I'm moving the car next week and she won't leave the house. I have no clue how I'm going to get her there without her screaming at me and making a scene. She still won't let me take anything of hers.<br><br>She's still screaming at me. I hope she kills herself tonight.<br><br>[OP]
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