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I(18M) pressed no one(18F) and now she wants an explanation

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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I(18M) met this girl at the beginning of March. She’s gorgeous, has a body like a goddess, and is so sweet. I really liked her but I was a bit shy. She was the first to text and I thought it was cute. We talked a lot and I really got to know her. We texted everyday and would Facetime sometimes. I’d always ask her how her day was and I’d tell her about mine.<br><br>One day I was in a group chat and there was a picture of her in her bra and pants. I asked her about it and she said she wasn’t wearing anything else because it was hot. I asked if she normally wore next to nothing at home and she said no, but it was hot. Then I asked if she was sitting or lying down and she said she was lying down. Then I asked if she was touching herself and she said no. Then I asked if she wanted to and she said maybe later. Then I asked if she wanted me to and she said no. That’s when I asked if she had a boyfriend and she said no. I asked if she wanted me to come over and she said no. Then I asked if she wanted me to show her and she blocked me.<br><br>A few days passed and I reached out to her again. She said she was annoyed because I kept pressing and she didn’t know what to say. I told her I was sorry and that I just got excited because I really liked her. She asked what I meant by the questions and I explained that I was just curious. She said it was weird and uncomfortable and that I should have asked her first before asking those questions. I said I was sorry again and that I’d respect her from now on.<br><br>A few days pass again and we’re talking again. She said she wanted to talk about it and that she was annoyed because she didn’t expect me to ask those questions. I said I was sorry again and that I wouldn’t do it again. Then she asked me to explain why I asked her if she was lying in bed, if she was touching herself, if she wanted to, if she wanted me to, and if she had a boyfriend. I said I don’t need to explain anything to her and that I was sorry again.<br><br>I don’t think I did anything wrong but I just want to know if I did. Am I an asshole for asking those questions? I’m just curious. I don’t think she’s the right girl for me because she doesn’t like me that way and because I don’t like her. But if she does want me then I’ll let her know.<br><br>TLDR: I asked some questions and now she doesn’t like me.

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