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Update: I walked in on my girlfriend masturbating and now I feel like I don’t want her anymore

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It’s not in good faith to say I’m posting this for my son’s health. I have zero interest in her as a person and I want nothing more than to not be near her anymore. I’m just posting it for the rewards.<br><br>I was on the 4 hour shift at work. Got a call from a mysterious number with no caller id that I mistakenly answered. It was my gf. I said hello, wondering who it was. She said she needed to talk to me. I told her I was at work but could talk on the phone real quick. She said she couldn’t talk to me on the phone, that’s why she called. So I told her I’d be home in 3 hours and we could talk then. I get home and she’s waiting in the living room, ready to talk. I said sure, let’s do it. We go to the bedroom. She starts sobbing immediately. I ask her if anything bad happened. She said that she knows she fucked up, she just needs to tell me something. She told me that she knows I need space and she’s been backing off. I said no, I don’t need space, I just don’t want you sometimes. She started crying even more. I told her it’s okay, that I don’t want you too, and that she can do whatever she wants.<br><br>She looked at me weirdly. I asked her if that’s what she was going to do. She said no, that she just needed to tell me something. She said that I’m a great guy, I’m very nice and respectful and I’m so good to her, and she doesn’t want me to lose trust in her. I told her that’s fine, I don’t lose trust in you, I just don’t want you.<br><br>She started crying even more and said that I don’t like her anymore, that’s why I feel that way. I told her that’s correct, I don’t like you anymore.<br><br>She was very disappointed in my response, said I was cold and heartless, that she was trying to confess and I made it worse. I said she confessed to what? That she jacks off? She said she jacks off a lot. I said that’s fine, you can do that. She said that she was just telling me that she jacks off a lot. I said that she doesn’t need to tell me that. She said that she jacks off a lot and I don’t like her anymore, which means I don’t care that she does that a lot. I said that’s right. She said that I’m an asshole. I said that’s right. She said that she’s sorry that I’m this way and that she was trying to make amends with me but I made it worse. I said she should have thought of that before she started touching herself.<br><br>She got mad at me and said that she did nothing wrong. I told her that she’s right, nothing wrong, it’s fine.<br><br>She walked out and went to her friends house.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>&#x200B;

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