[UPDATE] My (22f) fiance (25m) want his father to check my hymen tomorrow night before I get married.

I first made a post almost a month ago. My dad found the post I made and shared it with my fiance. I was at my dads for lunch and my fiance came to discuss the situation with me.<br><br>He told me he was embarrassed by the whole situation. He admitted that he had overstepped the boundary and that he had been extremely foolish. He told me that he was in his emotional state and that he was being a huge jerk. He said he was in a state of total confusion and he couldn't explain how he had gotten to that point. He told me he had never been more ashamed in his life. He also said he needed help and that he needed to see a therapist. <br><br>He told me that he realised what he was asking me to do was extremely inappropriate. He said he was extremely disappointed in himself and said he wouldn't ever talk to me the way he did. He said he was extremely embarrassed and felt like he had let me down and his parents down. He said his mother was also extremely angry with him and his dad told him off too.<br><br> He told me he wouldn't ever ask something like that from me and he wouldn't ever put me through that. He said he was begging my pardon for his behaviour and that he wanted me to know that it was never my fault. He told me he loved me more than anything in the world and I was an amazing fiancée. He told me I was one of a kind and I was amazing. He also told me I had been very patient and understanding and that he didn't deserve it. He told me I deserved much better than him.<br><br>He told me we had accomplished a lot in the short space of time we had been together. We had gotten very close and had even talked about wanting to have kids with each other. He told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. He said he wouldn't ever ask me to do anything that I didn't want to do and he promised to always treat me the way I deserved to be treated. He told me he would get himself checked out by a doctor to make sure he had nothing mentally off the rails with him.<br><br>I decided to give him another chance. I told him I appreciated him apologising to me and that I also appreciated him telling my dad off. I also appreciated his parents being so upset over what he did. He told me he wanted me to know he was extremely sorry and he hated himself for making me cry. I asked him to please stop blaming himself and told him it was his dads doing for telling you. I told him I was glad he realised his mistakes and that I appreciated him asking me if I still wanted to marry him. I also appreciated him asking if he had ruined my trust in him. He told me he wanted to make sure that I still felt the same way about him.<br><br>I told him I loved him so much and I didn't blame him for what happened. I told him accidents happen. He asked me if I was really going to forgive him and I told him I was. He was over the moon and told me that he was the luckiest man in the world. He told me I was extremely forgiving. I told him I had to forgive him. I told him that I was also happy to help him get better with his mental health and told him I was happy he wanted to get a therapist.<br><br>I told him I had a conversation with my parents too and they both agreed with what I decided to do. I told them I wasn't blaming my fiance and that it was his dads fault. I also told my parents I didn't want my fiance to live in regret over something that happened a long time ago. My parents agreed and they also apologised to my fiance on behalf of me for making him the way he was. My fiance was so touched by that and he burst into tears. It was extremely sweet.<br><br>I am so glad I found an update friendly sub. Thanks again to everyone who commented and dmed me their stories.