My boyfriend (35M) will break up with me (35F) if i don’t have a pregnancy test ready before he comes over
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I (35f) and my boyfriend (35m) have been dating for over 4 years. He is super organized and planned and likes everything to be just so. Back in Dec 2024, I (35f) was 6-7 weeks pregnant with our first child. He (35m) was so excited and wanted to make all the arrangements and plans for a boy or a girl. I was never really sure I wanted kids and definitely not at the age we were so I never told him that. Fast forward 3 months and I loose the baby. I (35f) was devastated and he (35m) was pretty heartbroken for a while. It took a few months for him to start coming around again. Once he did, he started being all about the next baby. He wants to be a father so bad and it’s sweet, but I (35f) have a whole different view. <br><br>He (35m) has now reached the time where he thinks I (35f) should already have another pregnancy test on hand and ready to go whenever he (35m) comes over. He (35m) now expects me to always have 1 or 2 tests on hand, ready to go. I (35f) do not do “ready to go” or “on hand”. I (35f) like to take my time, relax, and enjoy my day. He (35m) now expects me to just always have some on hand and ready to go. If I (35f) don’t have one on hand and he (35m) comes over and I (35f) have to go to the store or wait for him (35m) to leave before I (35f) can take one, he (35m) says he will leave and they will break up. I (35f) will be left all alone, maybe even pregnant. Am I (35f) in the wrong here?<br><br>tl;dr: my (35m) expects me (35f) to always have a pregnancy test ready to go because he wants to make sure I am not pregnant when he (35m) comes over
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