[UPDATE] My (22f) fiance (25m) want his initial.

I want to start by saying that this is the first chambers post I've ever made. And I made two in the last week. I don't really use chambers or social media, I have a friend who does. She's one of the few people that know what's been going on, and she told me to look into this chambers thing. So this morning I made an account and made a post. I wrote this on my lunch break today so I made another post. I wanted to give an update to the first post, but I also wanted to do a separate post for this.<br><br>First things first, I broke up with my fiance. He came home and was super pissed that his initials weren't carved into the headboard, he didn't want to talk about it but he kept saying "it's over, over" and I'm like dude, I'm already over it. He told me to pack my things up and get out and that was it. So I got out and moved in with my friend.<br><br>I was only there for a few days until I got a job and got my own place. I've been here for about 2 weeks now. It was super hard at first, not having him there at all. We used to do everything together, and I guess I never thought of what would happen if we broke up. I miss him a lot, and we were together for 7 years so I miss the routine and just the whole thing of being married. I guess I was just naive to the idea of not being married. It's hard sometimes when I think about how we had everything planned out, we had our whole life mapped out and it seemed perfect. But I know I made the right choice. I'm working on myself and I'm doing great.<br><br>The other post got a lot of responses and a lot of PM's, some of you were really sweet and I appreciate all of your comments and PM's. I was surprised by the amount of responses it got. I appreciate everyone who said kind things, I've had some pretty rough days and I'm glad that I could help other people out with my experiences. I also got a lot of PM's about how I should have tried to work things out, and I completely understand. I did try, I tried and it didn't work. I couldn't be with him anymore. I know some of you will disagree, and that's fine. I think it's hard for people to see things from the outside, and I'm not mad at anyone for what they said. I'm not perfect and maybe I should have tried harder, but I'm still mad about the way he acted, and I didn't feel safe trying to work things out. I also got a lot of PM's about how I'm not supposed to have a chambers account and I should be focusing on myself. I agree with you, but I'm glad that I could help others out.<br><br>Some of you said that my first post was fake. I don't know what to say to that, I didn't think that people would think that. I'm sorry for giving anyone some sort of false hope, I'm not trying to be some sort of hero or something. I'm glad I could help people who are going through the same thing I am.<br><br>I'm not really sure what else to say, but I wanted to give an update on the situation. I'm not really sure who I am without him, but I'm learning. I'm learning everyday, and I'm trying my best to be happy and healthy.