My (34F) fiancé (40M) wants me to sign a prenup but will only reveal the terms of the prenup after I've signed it.

My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years. We have been engaged for a few months now. My fiancé was divorced before meeting me. The divorce was very messy. It has taken him a while to start thinking about marrying again because of the mess that his first marriage left him with. I totally understand. <br><br>And now that he has started thinking about remarrying he has brought up the topic of a prenup. Now I totally understand that he has been through a difficult divorce before so a prenup makes sense but I have a problem with the way he is approaching the prenup. <br><br>He wants me to agree to a prenup but will only reveal what is in it once I've actually signed it. <br><br>This does not make any sense to me. I will only agree to a prenup where the terms are disclosed before I sign. How am I to know that he isn't taking advantage of me if I don't know what I am agreeing to? He has nothing to hide as far as I am concerned. If he did he probably would've hidden it by now. And if it makes him uncomfortable to discuss it with me his lawyer can discloses the terms of the prenup to me. <br><br>What do people think? Am I being stupid? My friends are on my side. I think this is a huge red flag.