UPDATE: My girlfriend told me that she’s been sleeping with her ex for the past 6 months and she’s pregnant

It’s been a crazy few weeks since I’ve posted and I wanted to get opinions first before I did anything. But I’m not really sure I can wait any longer. <br><br>Firstly, I just want to say thank you so so much for all the replies I got. I honestly read every single one, even towards the end when I stopped replying. I did try to create a throw to preserve the info about the ex but it got removed so I apologised for that. <br><br>I realise now that I should’ve taken a step back and waited to at least hear her out before making my next steps. <br><br>I ended up going on a walk and I ended up talking to some of my friends and they told me to give her a chance. I thought about all the good stuff about her and how I didn’t really want it to end. <br><br>I came home and she was crying in the kitchen, she was probably waiting for me to come home but I had to stay at my friends last night. She immediately started sobbing and said she’s so sorry. She said that she made a mistake and that she doesn’t want to lose me. <br><br>I was pretty surprised at this and I asked her what she meant. She said that she still loves me and she was only with him because she thought I was no longer an option. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and said it’s okay and I forgive her but I need to know she’s telling me the truth. I asked her to tell me everything again, she said she already did. I told her I believe her but I want to hear it from her own mouth so she went back into detail again. <br><br>I know it’s bad because a lot of people said but I really didn’t, I was just oblivious. I knew something was up with her and her excuse was that she was stressed with work. She’s normally not the quiet type but she’s been acting really strangely for a couple of months now. I’m not sure if she was planning this all along, maybe she wasn’t because she said she was only with him two weeks ago. <br><br>She asked if I was staying and I didn’t really know what to say. She said she has an appointment with the hospital on Tuesday and asked me if I would come with her, I said no. She asked if she could stay in my room and I said okay. I know she’s probably just hoping I’ll change my mind but I just don’t know. <br><br>I’m sorry if this update is weird, I feel really lost right now. I don’t really know what I’m doing but I’m just trying to get through each day.