My boyfriend (M21) threatened to show my coworkers (F28) pictures of her doing things with me (F30) that are none of their business. Should I break up?

Throw away because I don’t want this to come up in search histories. I work with my bf, which I’ve mentioned before. It’s been a nightmare.<br><br>I got a very creepy message from my bf today, sent while he was at work (so it was 100% planned ahead of time). I’ve been getting really worried about this because I told him explicitly, a million times, that I am begging him NOT TO DO THIS. It’s very clear that he doesn’t care what I think or want.<br><br>The message read: “I have a surprise for you. You forgot you did these things before ? when you used to be wild and stuff. I have pictures of you this way to show you that you’ve changed a lot since you’ve been with me. You used to fuck in the back of my truck, you used to fuck in public. I have pictures of you doing it. I’ll send the first one tomorrow at work and if you don’t offer me a private dance at the strip club tonight, I’ll show the next one. You know what would be even better? If you bring one of your girls to the club tonight. I’ll show ALL of you your dirtiest moments. I’ll start with this one of you fucking one of your exes in my truck. You were always so dirty and I loved it. But I’m dating now. So if you want me to keep these where they belong, you’ll do what I say. The strip club tonight. Come alone or I’ll show you the private dance I taught you. Love you ?”<br><br>I sent a response, begging him not to do this. I’ve never been more scared in my life. This is going to ruin my entire career and I will be the joke of the office. My job is already a nightmare and my bf knows how much stress it gives me. He knows it’s my worst fear.<br><br>I have no idea what he’s talking about. I used to be a wild child? I’ve never fucked in a truck or public. I don’t even remember the last time I had sex. We’ve been together for 2 years and he’s never gotten close. I don’t know what he’s talking about. I used to strip (still do occasionally) but I never did anything private with customers. I never fucked anyone but my bf, and that was inside. <br><br>I’ve been so unhappy in this relationship for months. I don’t know how to get out. He is the money and he won’t move in anywhere, so I have to stay. I’ve been trying to get a promotion but my office is shit and there are no opportunities. I’m stuck. I feel so trapped and don’t know what to do. This was the final straw for me though. I’m going to break up with him. I’ll have to move in with my mom and figure out a new job. <br><br>I’m just so nervous this will go how I want it to. What if he doesn’t take it well? What if he shows my coworkers the stuff he has anyway? Please help. What are your thoughts? Should I break up?