Update 2: I just found out that my wife (34F) has been cheating on me (34M) with her co worker for at least 8 months

It has been hard to sit down and write this. I have previously posted about my wife cheating on me. A lot of people suggested that I should go through her phone. I was just so hurt that I didn't know that I could bring myself to go through her phone. <br><br>Over the past few days, my wife has been acting strange. She has been making a lot of phone calls and she bought new phone. There has been a lot of changes that have made me feel something is off. I was trying to get back to my wife, but she seemed completely distant. I got a class D misdemeanor charge for trespassing. I was at my wife's mothers house. I don't really know what happened. I feel like everything is spiraling out of control. I don't know why, but I went through my wife's phone. I found out that she has been cheating on me. I am extremely hurt and angry.