My (M32) fiancee (F32) kept mentioning her ex in our entire relationship. Today she told me she loves him.
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My fiancée and I met in person a year ago. She was engaged to this guy but they broke up. She said she still loved him. We became close friends and did stuff together. But she always kept talking about him. I was like "hey, cool dude, good for you". She'd say things like "he's the only guy who made me cum" or "he knows how to treat a woman". I ignored it. <br><br>To make things short, we became a couple, got engaged. She'd still kept talking about him but I never said anything. She'd ask me if I'd listen to her when she talks about him. I'd say sure. She'd talk and I'd listen. She'd ask me if I'm jealous, I'd say no. <br><br>I've been checking her phone and messages everyday. Never found anything. She knows I check. But never said anything.<br><br>It's been 6 months since we got engaged. I've never caught her making any calls or anything of that sort. <br><br>But yesterday she came to me. She said "I love him. I don't know what to do". She was crying and she was hugging me. I was like "who?" She said "him" and then she broke down. I was like "we can talk. I'm not gonna leave you". Then I hugged her. After a while she said "I'm sorry". I said "its fine. But if you wanna go back to him, thats fine too. But can you please move out? I'd take care of the bills till they are paid off". Then she said "no I won't go back". I said "its fine then". <br><br>It's been a few hours since this happened and shes in another room. I'm not sure what to do. I want her to be happy but I don't think I can let her go back to him.
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