My (28f) boyfriend (34M) went on a trip with his friends and got really drunk, I haven’t heard from him for 3 days and he won’t answer my calls.
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My boyfriend of 2 years, went on a trip with his friends for a week, I’m 28f and he’s 34M, He left 2 weeks ago and was supposed to come home yesterday. He packed everything we have together and left my apartment. On the day he was supposed to come home, I woke up around 6am really worried and decided to call, no answer. I tried messaging him, no answer. I took an Uber to his home (he lives 3 hours away from me) to find out that he hadn’t arrived. I was there for 6 hours waiting for him to come and at some point his mom arrived and was confused as to where he was. She told me he hasn’t arrived yet and that she’s worried too. I took an Uber back home and waited for him to arrive. We ended up going to his house again, I ended up at his home at 5am and waited for him to come, he finally arrived at 6:30 and of course he wasn’t worried at all, he acted like nothing happened. He said that he got really drunk and stayed at the hotel with his friends for 2 nights. He stayed for 2 nights? But I haven’t heard from you for 3 days? The worst part is that he didn’t even realize how much he scared me. I’m really confused on how to handle this, I haven’t been able to sleep since then and I have to see him tomorrow.<br><br>I feel like it’s getting really serious and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if I can wait for him to come home and see if he realizes how he scared me and acted like everything is normal? I feel like he’s getting really reckless. Advice please.
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