My (32f) bf (40m) got me a sentimental bday gift and I feel guilty that I want to ask for something else too.
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My bf got me a heart-shaped locket for my birthday today because his late wife used to wear one just like it. He told me lots of stories about her and I felt so touched and grateful that he'd want to share that part of himself with me. <br><br>I felt a little weird because he didn't know if I'd be okay with him giving me a used piece of jewelry, but I told him I loved it immediately. It was so sweet and I felt so special that he'd want to give me something that was meaningful to him. <br><br>But then I started thinking... I would love to have something more just for me. Like maybe something with blue in it because that's my favorite color. I didn't want to ask him to get me another one, though, because I felt like that would be disrespectful to his late wife. But now I'm just feeling really guilty that I wanted something else too.<br><br>rust me, i want him to know that i appreciate everything he does for me and that the locket is so beautiful to me. I just feel weird that I didn't love it immediately and that I wanted something else too. What should I do?
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