[UPDATE] I walked in on my son having sex with my brother's wife

Hey guys I just wanted to update you all on my situation. Thank you to all who offered support and advice. I was the incidence where I couldn't contact family members to let them know I was in town for a visit and the only person I knew was my cousin, who I haven't spoken to since the whole situation went down. I reached out to her to let her know what happened and to let my niece know also. She was an absolute mess when I told her and let me know her husband knows and basically did nothing but feel bad for them. He told her it was a mistake and he's not into guys, which I can't believe she believed. She said she told him she was leaving and going to stay with her mom but doesn't know if he's told my brother yet.<br><br>I told my cousin I wouldn't be coming to visit for our family reunion this weekend and she told me that nobody is speaking to my niece or brother and that the whole side is blaming her. I told her I would be driving through the state this coming week and she wanted me to stop by so we could hang out, I told her I would and that my niece could also come if she wanted. My brother hasn't said anything to me and is still not returning my calls.<br><br>I also wanted to address something some of you guys brought up about my son's hair "being too long". I know a lot of guys with long hair and they all keep it neat and put together. Clearly my son wasn't doing a good enough job maintaining it and I'm not defending his actions but the guy does play drums in a band, so it's not like he wanted a buzz cut. I can see why it would be distracting and maybe even make the situation worse but it wasn't the main issue.<br><br>Again, I want to thank everyone who reached out to offer advice and support. I do apologize for not replying to some of you, it's tough when the people you want to talk to the most aren't returning your calls.