UPDATE - my husband (35M) has been texting a female co-worker (27F)

My original post got locked because I posted from an anonymous account. I am back on my actual account to post the update. Here it is: <br><br>I confronted him that day at lunch, and he started with "this is embarrassing. I've been a terrible husband lately."<br><br>He admitted that it was physical only and had never been with anyone of any race but wanted to because "you've always said it was a turn on for me that I was Asian."<br><br>He then said that he knew it was wrong and felt guilty but wanted to try it because he was "bored."<br><br>He offered to stop seeing her, move out of our estate and change his job so he wouldn't run into her.<br><br>I asked him how long this was going on, and he said from December to last week. They first started "hooking up" in November but had been making plans since then and "hooking up" since January.<br><br>He wanted to be forgiven because he loved me and was going to do anything to make me happy.<br><br>In the end, I told him that I couldn't forgive him and that he needed to move out immediately.<br><br>It was the worst day of my life and I am absolutely devastated. I feel so betrayed and hurt.<br><br>Sorry, there isn't a happy ending. No one should expect one in a situation like this.